MIDLAND ROAD: After talking with and sending money to a woman he met on a dating site, a 60-year-old man is out $7,000. She told him she was former military and had $8 million in gold to send to the United States. However, she said her courier was arrested in Dubai and needed $20,000 to be released. After sending $7,000, the man became suspicious and contacted deputies, who confirmed he had been defrauded, Sgt. Gary Sams said.